And he is non-custodial parent to a child.
Answer:
Nope, bipolar disorder is considered 4F in any branch of the military.
not sure, but my guess would be no.
Not likely. He would not be a good candidate for any branch of the service due to how he may react were he to be captured and his medication taken away from him, or lose it in battle. Being under extreme pressures of war are not tolerated well by those having no mental disorders. Having a bi-polar disorder would make it very difficult for him. Try to encourage another way of helping the USA.
I doubt they would take him. He is considered a hazard. Because of the bipolar.
Sorry, but no. I live in an area with various military facilities of several different branches, and several kids my son knows from school could not get in because they had been officially diagnosed as bipolar.
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Will quiting Paxil AKA Pexeva have any withdrawel symptoms?
I have been taking paxil for less than a month but taking it everyday 10m I want to stop taking it. Can I do this abrumptly since I havent been taking it for long?
Answer:
if it were only a week I'd say yes, but not after a whole month, you need to taper to stop the drug safely. It does take six weeks for the drug to be effective, why aren't you willing to give it time to work?
It differs for everyone. Basically you should tapper down. This may mean halving the dose every week. Obviously you should ask your doctor what the best way is to stop. May I ask why you are stopping so soon?
no. it's in your system. lower the dose every other day until you're off.
Question: Shouldn't you be asking your physician this?
you have not given the drug time to work it takes 6-8 weeks for an antidepressent to work.when stoping paxil should tamper the dose.withdraw from paxil can cause seereheadache.please consult with your doctor.
Probably not if you've only been taking it for a month. I've taken Paxil for periods of six months in the past and never had problems going off them (I believe I was on 10mg/day also). Some people are fine and some have rather pronounced withdrawal symptoms. If you're concerned you could talk to your doctor about gradually tapering off but since you haven't been taking it that long you shouldn't have any problems. But like others have said it can take up to 8 weeks to become fully effective so, if the side effects are not intolerable, maybe you should give it a chance.
Answer:
if it were only a week I'd say yes, but not after a whole month, you need to taper to stop the drug safely. It does take six weeks for the drug to be effective, why aren't you willing to give it time to work?
It differs for everyone. Basically you should tapper down. This may mean halving the dose every week. Obviously you should ask your doctor what the best way is to stop. May I ask why you are stopping so soon?
no. it's in your system. lower the dose every other day until you're off.
Question: Shouldn't you be asking your physician this?
you have not given the drug time to work it takes 6-8 weeks for an antidepressent to work.when stoping paxil should tamper the dose.withdraw from paxil can cause seereheadache.please consult with your doctor.
Probably not if you've only been taking it for a month. I've taken Paxil for periods of six months in the past and never had problems going off them (I believe I was on 10mg/day also). Some people are fine and some have rather pronounced withdrawal symptoms. If you're concerned you could talk to your doctor about gradually tapering off but since you haven't been taking it that long you shouldn't have any problems. But like others have said it can take up to 8 weeks to become fully effective so, if the side effects are not intolerable, maybe you should give it a chance.
Will my friend become a normal person?
my friend ,who is most influential man,believes that biological weapons and arms were harbored by his neighbor, with an intention to kill him .He also believed that his neighbor is not treating his kith and kin well and behaving like a dictator.. i inspected that neighbor's house, but i could not find out any. but my friend did not believe my words.he sent some hooligans to attack his neighbor Those hooligans also could not find out any weapons, but they killed his neighbor.. now, my friend is in debt trap as he had to pay huge amounts to the hooligans . even though, that neighbor was dead, my friend's henchmen still occupied that house and my friend still believing a threat from the kith and kin of his deceased neighbor, incited violence and divided the sons and daughters of the neighbor,as a result, there are daily killings of relatives, kith and kin of the deceased neighbor. he has enormous influence in all circles. what is his disease ?
Answer:
He may have scizophrenia
Does he seem agitated most of the time?
He needs to go to see a doctor to explain all these things
I suggest you go to the Control Panel, under 'Add/Remove Friends' and remove him from your list.
I dont know about your friend love but you need some help
His disease is paranoia with feelings of persecution. It is difficult to remedy.
sounds like syphilis or bipolar
hmmm you are talking about "dubya" aren't you?? his disease is meglomania ...
If thats a true story, he is screwed up and needs urgent mental hospital treatment.
may be mentally affected
Hello,
(ANS) Its an extreme form of paranoia with delusions. Your friend has a serious mental health problem aside from all the violence. Its sounds like he needs professional help for his situation.
IR
sorry is this a movie because it sounds like bullsh*t
he is an idiotic momma's boy who never had to care for himself and he has abrother named Jeb. All big problems.
Sounds like a croc-o-sh#t to me!
schizophrenia - or you've got some time on your hands and enjoy creative writing and the gullibility of some yahoos
its called politics ... and legally u are allowed to get away with murder ...
its the lunatics running the asylum
That's what you get for threatening someone's dad
Is your friend George W Bush or Tony Blair by any chance?
schezophrenia.
you also need to seek help.
if the neighbor is dead, did anyone report to the police?
Paranoid episode..
Medication can bring him back to normal...
hahaha! good one!My mother read it too and she didn't understand lol ...like a lot of people out there, alas...
I do think Bush suffers from paranoia... or is it just megalomania?
I can only assume you are talking about Iraq %26 the US and the UK.
And the answer is probably not. Normallity is a long way off!
Answer:
He may have scizophrenia
Does he seem agitated most of the time?
He needs to go to see a doctor to explain all these things
I suggest you go to the Control Panel, under 'Add/Remove Friends' and remove him from your list.
I dont know about your friend love but you need some help
His disease is paranoia with feelings of persecution. It is difficult to remedy.
sounds like syphilis or bipolar
hmmm you are talking about "dubya" aren't you?? his disease is meglomania ...
If thats a true story, he is screwed up and needs urgent mental hospital treatment.
may be mentally affected
Hello,
(ANS) Its an extreme form of paranoia with delusions. Your friend has a serious mental health problem aside from all the violence. Its sounds like he needs professional help for his situation.
IR
sorry is this a movie because it sounds like bullsh*t
he is an idiotic momma's boy who never had to care for himself and he has abrother named Jeb. All big problems.
Sounds like a croc-o-sh#t to me!
schizophrenia - or you've got some time on your hands and enjoy creative writing and the gullibility of some yahoos
its called politics ... and legally u are allowed to get away with murder ...
its the lunatics running the asylum
That's what you get for threatening someone's dad
Is your friend George W Bush or Tony Blair by any chance?
schezophrenia.
you also need to seek help.
if the neighbor is dead, did anyone report to the police?
Paranoid episode..
Medication can bring him back to normal...
hahaha! good one!My mother read it too and she didn't understand lol ...like a lot of people out there, alas...
I do think Bush suffers from paranoia... or is it just megalomania?
I can only assume you are talking about Iraq %26 the US and the UK.
And the answer is probably not. Normallity is a long way off!
Will my family ever abadon me?
When I was 10 yrs old my mom got divorced from my dad.That same year she got a new boyfriend when they would go out I would worry about where they had gone and why they were out so late.one time they went out and one of my sisters said that she was going to leave me and go live with her boyfriend and i would never see her again.she said that just to make me cry thats how mean my sisters would be.I am now 16 yrs old and suffering from separtion anxiety.My other sister gave me an article to read about how we can harness the power of the universe to our advantage.It basically said that if I think positively positive things will happen and if I think negatively negative things will happen.So I can't stop thinking if I think my family will abondon me...will they?
any advice will help
Answer:
Please find an adult you respect and talk with them. Your sisters article is saying that thoughts become actions. To a degree that is true. If one is happy and has happy thoughts, their world is going to be a happy place. But just thinking the happy thoughts didn't make it happen. Most of it is in the way the person reacts to the things that happen to them. Having thoughts of family abandonment isn't going to make it happen. But it will make you apprehensive. Do talk it out with people you respect.
you are now 16 and they are still there %26#92;go figure
While what your sister is is true, if you think positive, positive will happen, and negative negative things will happen, it just is just a "rule."
I really don't think that your family will leave you. You should definitely talk to someone other than us faceless people from ByeDr.com to see what needs to happen.
Try talking to your family and see what they think about your separation anxiety. They may need to spend some extra time with you or something that proves that they will not leave you since that is your fear.
I understand the thought process, kind of like if I think I'll get a headache, your body will actually produce one, although with something involving other people, it would be more difficult. You can not control what other people can do, you can only sit back and wait and see what happens. Perhaps you should talk to your parents about your anxiety, and maybe they can ease your mine.
i think that when they do abandon u you will have ur own family and wont care as much. good luck p.s i'll never abandon u
OK, no. First of all, that article about "if you think positive, positive things will happen and if you think negative, negative things will happen" is a crock of $h!t. Think about it for a minute. Half the people in the country hate George Bush, and yet he's still president, he's still in good health, and nothing bad ever happens to him. He hasn't been impeached yet, has he? Yet you can go on line and find all these people yelling, "Bush should be impeached!" So that right there shows you that thinking negative thoughts about someone, or about a situation, does NOT mean that negative things will happen.
You really should think about going to a counselor or therapist, because these are issues that you could get out in the open with a good counselor. A good therapist or counselor could help you figure out why you feel the way you feel, and more importantly, what you can do about it to help yourself.
your family would never leave you willingly so don't worry
Nothing you've said makes me think your family is going to abandon you. I would talk to your mom and your "other sister" about your negative thoughts and leave the cry-making sister out of the conversation. She's no help.
Therapists can also help you deal with your negative thoughts.
If you're 16 you'll probably leave your mom before she leaves you. Is that what the separation anxiety is about? A lot of teens go through that when they start planning to go off to university or leave the family home.
Looking for the positive instead of the negative is good advice, but don't judge yourself if you can't do it right away. Real change takes time.
your mom will not abandon you!! I think you should talk to her about this.
your sister is a mean butt! Just kidding-she was probably just annoying you and didnt realize it would really bother you. talk to your mom!!
you and your sister have eachother and that is whats important
I can identify with you sooo much. My mother left me when I was 4. I am terribly sorry you were told those things. Fear of abandonment especially by the ones we love the most needs to be dealt with, with the help of a therapist. It is natural for those thoughts to be there now but your family is still there and more than likely will be but the fear is very real and with good reason, unfortunately. Yeah, positive thinking is great but it is a lot easier said than done when you have past issues to deal with from the past such as you have described. I do hope that you will talk to a therapist and they will be able to help get you through this so you can feel better and confident about your situation. You can email me anytime at jsbinal@yahoo.com I wish you the best~
The article your sister gave you is about The Secret which is really nothing more than the power of positive thinking - which has been around forever and a day.
Okay. So what would happen to you without family? You would be forced to become more independant and more self-reliant. You'd find some inner strength and realize how strong you really are.
Eventually you'll create and have a family of your own but you need to work on your fears and insecurities before then or you'll end up driving people away.
Long Answer: Well, I suspect not. That theory is not quite so black and white, its more abstract. The thing is, we live as mortals down here on earth, which means we are subject to dealing with a lotta crap we don't wanna deal with. Happens to all of us this "crap". The difference is the different mindset, which is what your sister was trying to help you with. See if you are thinking positively, the crap will still happen, you will just be able to handle it better than if all your doing is whining and moaning about "woe is you and look how bad I have it". The negative mindset is so busy feeling miserable about how much this sucks, that the problem never gets dealt with.
Short Answer: No, if you obsess about your family leaving, it will NOT CAUSE THEM TO LEAVE. It does sound however like you having obsessive/intrusive thoughts, and seeing a doctor about that might make you feel muuuuuch better.
I dont think that if you say your family is going to abandon that it will happen.. but dont take this seriously but i've allways had this saying that i made up..
" Everyone Will End Up Leaving You"
It's just something i made up but i think its true. think about it eventually almost everyone will end up leaveing you. or you leave them.. like every year when school ends you leave all your teachers behind and your friends...everyone gose their sepreat way and if they dont then the will eventually
and some people are going to die and then they will leave you that way...and your going to leave your mom and move out hopefully when your 18... dont be to atached to your family that you dont ever want to leave them because thats not good anyway i hope you get over this feeling that your having that your family is going to abandon you because i know its a terable feeling but... your family is your family and thats somthing that never changes even if you want it to . (their alway going to be there!)
am so sorry about you,but you don't tell where is your mother now,however,my advice is to believe in god that never abandont us,and think that your mother also have the right to live her life,the falt is there is no one take care of you,but believe that you an come over this problem,forgive your family,and think about your future,and days will heal your wound,if you see your problem is a big one you are false,i live with both mam and dad but god now how we suffered from my father especially my mam,but she cannot leave the house because she want to protect my brother , he treat my brother very bad since he was 1 year only ,now my brother is 25 years he dosent become sad whenever he remembered that,he get aseperate flat,never let any one to trouble him and he'll get married soon ,however,about you you can seperate from your family withen 2 years,and live this time by love,love your family then they will love you ,forgive them and never fall or repeat their falt in the future with your family,never think about your fears,life is short and worthy to live it,and you deserve happiness because compensation is the low of the life,one day your parants will repent of what they do,always think about your future and to be better in every thing and don't seek advice from your sisters because they also victims and don't do right things ,also make good friends (friends are best prescription)and appreciate the value of life,god will not leave you,and am sure you will meet a person who realy loves you
You were abandoned by your dad. Then your mom left you to go out with a stranger. Your sisters are probably just as hurt but they feel powerful by scaring you. So you have this fear from past experience.
If you can talk to someone you trust, do. It's OK to be afraid, to feel fear, to think scary thoughts. You are still vulnerable. Life is hard, bro. But you made it the last six years from when you were little.
Think about it, fear is OK. It is telling you something. Probably you don't know what to do when you are 18 and out. Maybe consider some plans, ask our friends what they plan to do, look into a trade at a Community College. Nursing pays well and so do many trades. Go visit.
Dream of a future where you have power over your life. Read about people who came from less than perfect families who went on to achieve. Rent The Power of Happyness or another inspiring story. You are not alone.
any advice will help
Answer:
Please find an adult you respect and talk with them. Your sisters article is saying that thoughts become actions. To a degree that is true. If one is happy and has happy thoughts, their world is going to be a happy place. But just thinking the happy thoughts didn't make it happen. Most of it is in the way the person reacts to the things that happen to them. Having thoughts of family abandonment isn't going to make it happen. But it will make you apprehensive. Do talk it out with people you respect.
you are now 16 and they are still there %26#92;go figure
While what your sister is is true, if you think positive, positive will happen, and negative negative things will happen, it just is just a "rule."
I really don't think that your family will leave you. You should definitely talk to someone other than us faceless people from ByeDr.com to see what needs to happen.
Try talking to your family and see what they think about your separation anxiety. They may need to spend some extra time with you or something that proves that they will not leave you since that is your fear.
I understand the thought process, kind of like if I think I'll get a headache, your body will actually produce one, although with something involving other people, it would be more difficult. You can not control what other people can do, you can only sit back and wait and see what happens. Perhaps you should talk to your parents about your anxiety, and maybe they can ease your mine.
i think that when they do abandon u you will have ur own family and wont care as much. good luck p.s i'll never abandon u
OK, no. First of all, that article about "if you think positive, positive things will happen and if you think negative, negative things will happen" is a crock of $h!t. Think about it for a minute. Half the people in the country hate George Bush, and yet he's still president, he's still in good health, and nothing bad ever happens to him. He hasn't been impeached yet, has he? Yet you can go on line and find all these people yelling, "Bush should be impeached!" So that right there shows you that thinking negative thoughts about someone, or about a situation, does NOT mean that negative things will happen.
You really should think about going to a counselor or therapist, because these are issues that you could get out in the open with a good counselor. A good therapist or counselor could help you figure out why you feel the way you feel, and more importantly, what you can do about it to help yourself.
your family would never leave you willingly so don't worry
Nothing you've said makes me think your family is going to abandon you. I would talk to your mom and your "other sister" about your negative thoughts and leave the cry-making sister out of the conversation. She's no help.
Therapists can also help you deal with your negative thoughts.
If you're 16 you'll probably leave your mom before she leaves you. Is that what the separation anxiety is about? A lot of teens go through that when they start planning to go off to university or leave the family home.
Looking for the positive instead of the negative is good advice, but don't judge yourself if you can't do it right away. Real change takes time.
your mom will not abandon you!! I think you should talk to her about this.
your sister is a mean butt! Just kidding-she was probably just annoying you and didnt realize it would really bother you. talk to your mom!!
you and your sister have eachother and that is whats important
I can identify with you sooo much. My mother left me when I was 4. I am terribly sorry you were told those things. Fear of abandonment especially by the ones we love the most needs to be dealt with, with the help of a therapist. It is natural for those thoughts to be there now but your family is still there and more than likely will be but the fear is very real and with good reason, unfortunately. Yeah, positive thinking is great but it is a lot easier said than done when you have past issues to deal with from the past such as you have described. I do hope that you will talk to a therapist and they will be able to help get you through this so you can feel better and confident about your situation. You can email me anytime at jsbinal@yahoo.com I wish you the best~
The article your sister gave you is about The Secret which is really nothing more than the power of positive thinking - which has been around forever and a day.
Okay. So what would happen to you without family? You would be forced to become more independant and more self-reliant. You'd find some inner strength and realize how strong you really are.
Eventually you'll create and have a family of your own but you need to work on your fears and insecurities before then or you'll end up driving people away.
Long Answer: Well, I suspect not. That theory is not quite so black and white, its more abstract. The thing is, we live as mortals down here on earth, which means we are subject to dealing with a lotta crap we don't wanna deal with. Happens to all of us this "crap". The difference is the different mindset, which is what your sister was trying to help you with. See if you are thinking positively, the crap will still happen, you will just be able to handle it better than if all your doing is whining and moaning about "woe is you and look how bad I have it". The negative mindset is so busy feeling miserable about how much this sucks, that the problem never gets dealt with.
Short Answer: No, if you obsess about your family leaving, it will NOT CAUSE THEM TO LEAVE. It does sound however like you having obsessive/intrusive thoughts, and seeing a doctor about that might make you feel muuuuuch better.
I dont think that if you say your family is going to abandon that it will happen.. but dont take this seriously but i've allways had this saying that i made up..
" Everyone Will End Up Leaving You"
It's just something i made up but i think its true. think about it eventually almost everyone will end up leaveing you. or you leave them.. like every year when school ends you leave all your teachers behind and your friends...everyone gose their sepreat way and if they dont then the will eventually
and some people are going to die and then they will leave you that way...and your going to leave your mom and move out hopefully when your 18... dont be to atached to your family that you dont ever want to leave them because thats not good anyway i hope you get over this feeling that your having that your family is going to abandon you because i know its a terable feeling but... your family is your family and thats somthing that never changes even if you want it to . (their alway going to be there!)
am so sorry about you,but you don't tell where is your mother now,however,my advice is to believe in god that never abandont us,and think that your mother also have the right to live her life,the falt is there is no one take care of you,but believe that you an come over this problem,forgive your family,and think about your future,and days will heal your wound,if you see your problem is a big one you are false,i live with both mam and dad but god now how we suffered from my father especially my mam,but she cannot leave the house because she want to protect my brother , he treat my brother very bad since he was 1 year only ,now my brother is 25 years he dosent become sad whenever he remembered that,he get aseperate flat,never let any one to trouble him and he'll get married soon ,however,about you you can seperate from your family withen 2 years,and live this time by love,love your family then they will love you ,forgive them and never fall or repeat their falt in the future with your family,never think about your fears,life is short and worthy to live it,and you deserve happiness because compensation is the low of the life,one day your parants will repent of what they do,always think about your future and to be better in every thing and don't seek advice from your sisters because they also victims and don't do right things ,also make good friends (friends are best prescription)and appreciate the value of life,god will not leave you,and am sure you will meet a person who realy loves you
You were abandoned by your dad. Then your mom left you to go out with a stranger. Your sisters are probably just as hurt but they feel powerful by scaring you. So you have this fear from past experience.
If you can talk to someone you trust, do. It's OK to be afraid, to feel fear, to think scary thoughts. You are still vulnerable. Life is hard, bro. But you made it the last six years from when you were little.
Think about it, fear is OK. It is telling you something. Probably you don't know what to do when you are 18 and out. Maybe consider some plans, ask our friends what they plan to do, look into a trade at a Community College. Nursing pays well and so do many trades. Go visit.
Dream of a future where you have power over your life. Read about people who came from less than perfect families who went on to achieve. Rent The Power of Happyness or another inspiring story. You are not alone.
Will loneliness over come me?
Some times I feel at the end of my rope.It is so frustrating to know what I am missing and feeling as though there is nothing I can do.Can I survive this lonliness?Will I make it to the finish line?
Answer:
I'm lonely as hell too, man. But my main issue is that I'm so anti-social that I don't really want to hang out because it feels so weird being around others...especially if you think you don't have much to say.
I'll be here for you if you need me. Send me a message, maybe we can talk on Yahoo IM!
Yes, you will make it, and im sure you will do great! I was a victim of loneliness for many years but I overcame it and I wouldnt change those years even if I had the chance, I learnt so much and am now so much stronger. I love life now, I havent got anyone more special even, I just make better use of the people I do have I guess, but even if I didnt have them, I could still be happy! Keep Trying and be positive! Great times lie ahead! Good Luck!
Sounds like depression, best treated by a combination of drugs and professional counseling. Go see a psychiatrist
Definately. Learn to be happy and make others happy and you will be the happiest person in this world.
feeling lonely can be very hard. especially when you are in a new place and have not made any friends. i get really lonly alot and then i got a job at a convience store and i love it. i love the people i work for and the people i work with. it has helped me alot. also i go to a bible study once a week and that helps too. getting out and meeting people that is the key. if you have anxiety and are afraid to meet people then go see a therapist and join some support groups that also helps especially when you know that you are not the only one who suffers from this. it is a great time of year if you have depression to get out of the house and get some sunlight. that helps a lot with that. i have severe anxiety but i am a little different with mine. mine comes from being alone to much. so i deal better around people, but i also take meds as well. i hope that this helps and you can feel a little less a lone in the world. just know that you are not and if you ever need totalk to someone feel free to email me
I truly believe you can overcome the loneliness...maybe we are all little islands you know? Maybe we're all alone...but I know one day even though we are all alone, you won't be lonely. I know its scary. Just try to be the best person you can be in life, that's what I try to do. That doesn't mean being perfect you know? Because no one is perfect..but keep trying your best..no matter what happens you can say you are trying your best. I know you can do it..I think the people in this world who can feel the most pain are really the strongest, even though it doesn't look that way..life is weird..I know if you keep facing it, you will succeed. Good luck friend!
Most people feel that way once in while so 'yes' you will come through your problems.
This next statement sounds like a joke but it isn't - - if you are at the end of your rope turn around and look - you'll find you have a whole new rope in front of you.
What this means is that sometimes we have lost perspective and need to change how we look at things.
For now, I'm sure you can be helped with talking or therapy, and maybe medications; anti- depressants or stimulants like methylphenidate (generic Ritalin) can provide the controlled boost you need to get over this rough spot.
If you start to really feel bad, you should call The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline - a 24-hour, toll-free suicide prevention service available to anyone in suicidal crisis.
If you need help, please dial 1-800-273-TALK (8255).
You will be routed to the closest possible crisis center in your area. With over 120 crisis centers across the country, their mission is to provide immediate assistance to anyone seeking mental health services. Call for yourself, or someone you care about. Your call is free and confidential.
There are other types of free screening services listed below.
Try the hotline first.
Some people turn to religion, meditation, karate or exercise, or yoga but only after the immediate problem is addressed (physical exercise does generally help if you can do some).
Let me know how you are getting along.
Answer:
I'm lonely as hell too, man. But my main issue is that I'm so anti-social that I don't really want to hang out because it feels so weird being around others...especially if you think you don't have much to say.
I'll be here for you if you need me. Send me a message, maybe we can talk on Yahoo IM!
Yes, you will make it, and im sure you will do great! I was a victim of loneliness for many years but I overcame it and I wouldnt change those years even if I had the chance, I learnt so much and am now so much stronger. I love life now, I havent got anyone more special even, I just make better use of the people I do have I guess, but even if I didnt have them, I could still be happy! Keep Trying and be positive! Great times lie ahead! Good Luck!
Sounds like depression, best treated by a combination of drugs and professional counseling. Go see a psychiatrist
Definately. Learn to be happy and make others happy and you will be the happiest person in this world.
feeling lonely can be very hard. especially when you are in a new place and have not made any friends. i get really lonly alot and then i got a job at a convience store and i love it. i love the people i work for and the people i work with. it has helped me alot. also i go to a bible study once a week and that helps too. getting out and meeting people that is the key. if you have anxiety and are afraid to meet people then go see a therapist and join some support groups that also helps especially when you know that you are not the only one who suffers from this. it is a great time of year if you have depression to get out of the house and get some sunlight. that helps a lot with that. i have severe anxiety but i am a little different with mine. mine comes from being alone to much. so i deal better around people, but i also take meds as well. i hope that this helps and you can feel a little less a lone in the world. just know that you are not and if you ever need totalk to someone feel free to email me
I truly believe you can overcome the loneliness...maybe we are all little islands you know? Maybe we're all alone...but I know one day even though we are all alone, you won't be lonely. I know its scary. Just try to be the best person you can be in life, that's what I try to do. That doesn't mean being perfect you know? Because no one is perfect..but keep trying your best..no matter what happens you can say you are trying your best. I know you can do it..I think the people in this world who can feel the most pain are really the strongest, even though it doesn't look that way..life is weird..I know if you keep facing it, you will succeed. Good luck friend!
Most people feel that way once in while so 'yes' you will come through your problems.
This next statement sounds like a joke but it isn't - - if you are at the end of your rope turn around and look - you'll find you have a whole new rope in front of you.
What this means is that sometimes we have lost perspective and need to change how we look at things.
For now, I'm sure you can be helped with talking or therapy, and maybe medications; anti- depressants or stimulants like methylphenidate (generic Ritalin) can provide the controlled boost you need to get over this rough spot.
If you start to really feel bad, you should call The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline - a 24-hour, toll-free suicide prevention service available to anyone in suicidal crisis.
If you need help, please dial 1-800-273-TALK (8255).
You will be routed to the closest possible crisis center in your area. With over 120 crisis centers across the country, their mission is to provide immediate assistance to anyone seeking mental health services. Call for yourself, or someone you care about. Your call is free and confidential.
There are other types of free screening services listed below.
Try the hotline first.
Some people turn to religion, meditation, karate or exercise, or yoga but only after the immediate problem is addressed (physical exercise does generally help if you can do some).
Let me know how you are getting along.
Will it all be ok..please help!!??
i dont know why but i have negative feelings, im lonely and sad at the minute and i dont know why. could you cheer me up and reassure me please!?
Answer:
hey. i know it might be hard, but try to give more details than that since it's hard to reassure u when i don't even know why your feeling how u are. But anyway, if ur having negative feelings, feeling lonely and sad.u need god. HEAR ME OUT. When i was 12, God was teh only reason I had to even bother to live my stupid pointless life. When i got hurt by him, at first times, i was so shocked and helpless. However, with each trial and hurt he put me through, i came out with a new thing learned about God, and i came out with more spiritual maturity, and with renewed faith. At the first few times of being hurt..it'll be trecherous. Later though, u'll learn to depend on him, and you'll like the trials because you'll learn that it'll bring you closer to him. Seriously, God is all anybody needs. He certianly was for me.
if you feel lonley......... get out more discover the more, trust me going out with friends and family helps
get out and meet people even if it is only the supermarket you can really change these feelings there are loads of people out there that need friends be positive you are as good as anyone
put some relaxing music on have a nice soak in the bath a few scented candles and you will forget what about your negative feelings it works for me
Allow yourself the time to feel sad but set a limit. It's ok to feel like that sometimes and most people do.Then give yourself a boost and focus on something positive in your life and see if you can create some positive energy surrounding that.
Self worth comes from having respect for yourself and belief that we are not all super human and its alright to crack at times. Well done for having the confidence to ask for help, that in itself is a big step.
Just think of all the people that are worse off.Thats what i do when i am down,just try not to dwell on things,i know its not easy but i am sure you will have a lot of nice answers on here to cheer you up.Be happy.
it's fine. get out with some friends and have a laugh! dont get drunk though, cos it'll hurt in the morning. i feel a bit self conscious with a miserable avatar, but these sites'll cheer u up!
http://www.ctrlaltdel-online.com/comic.p...
www.weebls-stuff.com/toons
http://{your name here}youaremighty.com
you need to talk to a therapist so ask your family doctor to refer you to one..If you are a minor speak to your parents or another adult you trust. Do you have friends or hobbies that you can do. If its something that comes and goes dont fret over it or you could make it worse..good luck
If u were lonely, no one would answer u, nor would they read ur "?"! Who are u? Where do u come from...on my planet we drink our tears.suck them dry ...lick em up as much as we can! Hope u gotta smile at least outta that one cuz it was a lil' stupppppid! U will be okay just do not give up!!!%26#92;
So whats the problem, you dwelling on the negative, huh. Come on, sit down and make a list of three good things in your life, make a list of three things you enjoy. Now make a list of three things you are good at or help other people with.
Now pick a point about yourself that other people like or admire about you.
concentrate on them, and remind yourself of the good in you. Give yourself a hug and when the world gives you a kick in the butt, smile cause you know better, then give it a kick back to keep it in line
everyone gets like it, even the people with the most friends in the world feel lonely. i have days when i am just so so fed up and sad and dont know why, and no one can say or do anything to snap me out of it. its just one of those things. and i'm sure posting questions and replying to questions on here helps u to feel less alone.
help some people out on here, answer some questions and help make someones day by giving them a good honest answer, you'll feel better then and have done a good turn too!
x x :-)
tomorrow is another day
everything will seem totally diffrent just wonderful
think of all the things you should be thankful about(family, friends, good health)
when you wake up tomorrow everything is going to be great
I know it is a very hard thing to do, but try looking at how lucky you are you must have a roof over your head, a computer you can use, you are not blind, stupid or dyslexic. You can have food or drink if you are hungry or thirsty. There you are not as negative as you thought! Just feeling a bit down at the momant. Think how bad you feel and how people that dont have all you have feel, if that dont make you feel better I think you may need to see a doctor. Good Luck god bless you
Answer:
hey. i know it might be hard, but try to give more details than that since it's hard to reassure u when i don't even know why your feeling how u are. But anyway, if ur having negative feelings, feeling lonely and sad.u need god. HEAR ME OUT. When i was 12, God was teh only reason I had to even bother to live my stupid pointless life. When i got hurt by him, at first times, i was so shocked and helpless. However, with each trial and hurt he put me through, i came out with a new thing learned about God, and i came out with more spiritual maturity, and with renewed faith. At the first few times of being hurt..it'll be trecherous. Later though, u'll learn to depend on him, and you'll like the trials because you'll learn that it'll bring you closer to him. Seriously, God is all anybody needs. He certianly was for me.
if you feel lonley......... get out more discover the more, trust me going out with friends and family helps
get out and meet people even if it is only the supermarket you can really change these feelings there are loads of people out there that need friends be positive you are as good as anyone
put some relaxing music on have a nice soak in the bath a few scented candles and you will forget what about your negative feelings it works for me
Allow yourself the time to feel sad but set a limit. It's ok to feel like that sometimes and most people do.Then give yourself a boost and focus on something positive in your life and see if you can create some positive energy surrounding that.
Self worth comes from having respect for yourself and belief that we are not all super human and its alright to crack at times. Well done for having the confidence to ask for help, that in itself is a big step.
Just think of all the people that are worse off.Thats what i do when i am down,just try not to dwell on things,i know its not easy but i am sure you will have a lot of nice answers on here to cheer you up.Be happy.
it's fine. get out with some friends and have a laugh! dont get drunk though, cos it'll hurt in the morning. i feel a bit self conscious with a miserable avatar, but these sites'll cheer u up!
http://www.ctrlaltdel-online.com/comic.p...
www.weebls-stuff.com/toons
http://{your name here}youaremighty.com
you need to talk to a therapist so ask your family doctor to refer you to one..If you are a minor speak to your parents or another adult you trust. Do you have friends or hobbies that you can do. If its something that comes and goes dont fret over it or you could make it worse..good luck
If u were lonely, no one would answer u, nor would they read ur "?"! Who are u? Where do u come from...on my planet we drink our tears.suck them dry ...lick em up as much as we can! Hope u gotta smile at least outta that one cuz it was a lil' stupppppid! U will be okay just do not give up!!!%26#92;
So whats the problem, you dwelling on the negative, huh. Come on, sit down and make a list of three good things in your life, make a list of three things you enjoy. Now make a list of three things you are good at or help other people with.
Now pick a point about yourself that other people like or admire about you.
concentrate on them, and remind yourself of the good in you. Give yourself a hug and when the world gives you a kick in the butt, smile cause you know better, then give it a kick back to keep it in line
everyone gets like it, even the people with the most friends in the world feel lonely. i have days when i am just so so fed up and sad and dont know why, and no one can say or do anything to snap me out of it. its just one of those things. and i'm sure posting questions and replying to questions on here helps u to feel less alone.
help some people out on here, answer some questions and help make someones day by giving them a good honest answer, you'll feel better then and have done a good turn too!
x x :-)
tomorrow is another day
everything will seem totally diffrent just wonderful
think of all the things you should be thankful about(family, friends, good health)
when you wake up tomorrow everything is going to be great
I know it is a very hard thing to do, but try looking at how lucky you are you must have a roof over your head, a computer you can use, you are not blind, stupid or dyslexic. You can have food or drink if you are hungry or thirsty. There you are not as negative as you thought! Just feeling a bit down at the momant. Think how bad you feel and how people that dont have all you have feel, if that dont make you feel better I think you may need to see a doctor. Good Luck god bless you
Will i over come my fear?
when i was 7 i got hit by a car and as a result i broke my neck and lots of other stuff came as a result.
the thing is i now have a fear of driving i have had a few lessons but i gave up because it scared me.i would like to lern but i dont no how to handle this .
Answer:
I don't drive either. Will you get over your fear? Yes, but only if you really like to drive. I don't like to drive.
Well i can see why you are scared of cars, and driving. I have known people that have over come it, and i have known people that did not over come the fear of cars and driving them. You could go to a therapist, and talk with them, an they could help you with it, and work through it. And if you go through therapy to get over it, u will need to take it very serious, and really work at it, otherwise it is just a waste of time.
you have got to be sure of yourself... don't be scared of the car... you are in control of the car. just try to go out there and be the best driver that you can be! so you can be sure that something (like that happened to you) wont happen to somebody else... i promise and even when i started driving (and i am sure this goes for most people) i was scared too... i even had a bad wreck (where i wasn't driving) but you know when you fall off the horse you just have to get right back on... corny i know but i have faith in you and you can do it!
Once you're able to say to yourself. "I am ready to move on." You can put your mind to getting over your fear. You will always remember it, but anything you put your mind to. You can pretty much do. Look within yourself. Or find a therapist to talk it over. Getting it out helps.
Try EMDR therapy. Look it up on the Internet and find a therapist near you. From what I have learned, a fear like yours can easily be treated in several sessions.
Give it a try. You won't be sorry.
Good luck.
the thing is i now have a fear of driving i have had a few lessons but i gave up because it scared me.i would like to lern but i dont no how to handle this .
Answer:
I don't drive either. Will you get over your fear? Yes, but only if you really like to drive. I don't like to drive.
Well i can see why you are scared of cars, and driving. I have known people that have over come it, and i have known people that did not over come the fear of cars and driving them. You could go to a therapist, and talk with them, an they could help you with it, and work through it. And if you go through therapy to get over it, u will need to take it very serious, and really work at it, otherwise it is just a waste of time.
you have got to be sure of yourself... don't be scared of the car... you are in control of the car. just try to go out there and be the best driver that you can be! so you can be sure that something (like that happened to you) wont happen to somebody else... i promise and even when i started driving (and i am sure this goes for most people) i was scared too... i even had a bad wreck (where i wasn't driving) but you know when you fall off the horse you just have to get right back on... corny i know but i have faith in you and you can do it!
Once you're able to say to yourself. "I am ready to move on." You can put your mind to getting over your fear. You will always remember it, but anything you put your mind to. You can pretty much do. Look within yourself. Or find a therapist to talk it over. Getting it out helps.
Try EMDR therapy. Look it up on the Internet and find a therapist near you. From what I have learned, a fear like yours can easily be treated in several sessions.
Give it a try. You won't be sorry.
Good luck.
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