i just want the truth and everone is lying to me why are they doing this ie family freinds doctors psychiatrist why are they letting me suffer why i cant cope anymore with there blatant lies i know what i see and it hurts emotinally physiacllly and mentally the truth never hurt no one and that is all i wont i know im deformed facially but EVEryone is lying because i see IT
Answer:
I dont know what you really look like but if you are deformed, then yes! You are plug ugly! You look like a pig on a poke, GROSS! Ewww
They dont want to hurt your feelings - get over it
Oh hello you're back. You need therapy, not surgery.
maybe only you see it. Post your picture ands then we can give you honest answers.
As parents they are just trying to protect you...do you mind me asking what is actually wrong with you? I'm not sure how or why they would lie to you about something you can see...
what can i say maybe talk to them about it. if their adult enough u should have a decent conversation alternatively theirs bound to be group sessions with people who are in the same situation as u if u try talking to ur doctor or look it up. i can't believe they aren't trying to help though. hope things turn out okay.
It may not seem like it but their trying to give you confidence and trying to make you feel better about yourself. You are probably the only one who notices it and you criticize yourself when no one else is doing that. Just come out of your shell and know your beautiful.
Do you actually have a deformed face? Or do you just see it as being deformed. You are probably suffering with body dismorphic disorder if you don't actually have a deformity. Type BBD into Google to read up on the disorder, you can get help.
They probably don't see your face as an issue, they see the person underneath.
I think we are our own worse enemy when it comes to criticising ourselves.
This might sound outlandish, ask a blind person to feel your face and ask him/her to tell you exactly what he thinks. Beforehand tell him how important it is to get a truthful answer.
The result will either shut up all those people who lie to you or you may have to change your mind.
Best of luck
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Well email me your pic and as an outider I'll give you an honest opinion. I'm sure you are not deformed facially, but you are going through a phase in a young womans life where you find it difficult to be comfortable with what you look like because of all these magazines and music videos. I've been through it and girls all over the world are. No one is telling you are ugly because you are not! And if it makes you feel better than go through therapy, whatever makes you stronger. Your name says 'positive' so act positive. Good luck!
people who love and care for you see past it and c the real u anyone who cant do that then they dont matter
I told you already - the Worzel Gummidge makeover is the only way to go. If you can't do that then I'm sorry but your stuck.
Get a life and a good therapist. Either you are daft or you do have a body image problem that needs intense, intense, psychiatric intervention or Worzel Gummidge makeover as someone suggested.
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Why why why, please tell me why?
diana you had your whole life in front of you, you were gorgeous, perfect hair and body, smart, intelligent, why why why is this happening, i wish i could of helped you more, i'm so sorry for letting you down, if only you were here again, i miss you, i love you, i wish you were here, you were my little sister, we had our differences but i have always loved you, more than you will ever know, why did you have to leave this world, u were so young only 23, why why why......why.. mom, dad, your other brothers and sisters, ...why, god please tell me why
Answer:
Seeking reasons for such unfortunate events is a normal human trait. Even if you had a detailed answer, giving the exact reasons, which rarely helps much, you would still have to cope with the loss, and go through the necessary stages of grieving. Phone Hospice or the Samaritans (phone book) www.samaritans.org Email jo@samaritans.org Go to http://www.mind.org.uk/ and type "grief" in the taskbar and press your "enter" key. See http://talkingminds.15.forumer.com/... Later, make a photo album/scrapbook and/or a shrine in remembrance, and select one day/month for remembering her, maybe planting a tree, as well.
Things happen, and we must move on and accept the fact that we will all pass on eventually. Anything could happen, the apocalypse is predicted for 2012 as it is... I'm sorry to hear of your misfortune, but you must move on. Remember, she's watching you. Get revenge on death by making your sister proud.
um. hmm.
I'm sorry, sweetie. It sounds like something really awful has happened.
I'm really really sorry.
I'm sorry for your loss. Most hospitals and even churches offer some kind of grief management support groups. They're usually free, also. Why not check into one of these groups? It will help you get through this.
I am sorry for your loss. I don't know if Diana took her life or had her life taken by illness or accident, but know that she is at peace and you will see her someday. I know right now that may not be entirely comforting, but in time, it will be once the shock wears off.
Please try to remember the wonderful times with your sister instead the last moments that were the worst. I will pray for you and your family. Take care.
I'm so sorry hon, it really sucks to lose someone we love, and blood we love is all that much harder to lose. With time it won't hurt as much, but the loss of a sister will never go away. But then you don't ever want to forget her, only move past the hurt. Try to occupy your mind as much as possible for a while, hang with friends, do healthy things you normally don't do. Time will help you move up the healing curve. If you can't seem to handle it on your own, you may need to reach out for some help. Don't wait if you have black thoughts, people love you, too! There often is absolutely no logical reason why, try not to ask the question, but I know your mind and heart are screaming for an answer. We are only on this earth for a moment, our goal should be to make the most out of what time we have left. Your sister wouldn't want to be a downer for you. You know that in your heart. Join a support group in your area, there is a great possibility of it helping. They will help you deal with the grief and the questions that can't be answered now. Don't blame yourself, you are not to blame. The support group will help you understand that as well. Don't go it alone. Take care of yourself.
This is to my way of thinking. We are all allotted a time period to achieve certain things in this life, what the certain things are, I don't know, but when we have achieved whatever they are, we are taken. Somehow , there a lessons in all of this for us. I think even the families we are born into are all preplanned for a reason. So be happy that you had your little sister for the time span that you did. Celebrate her life. Don't grieve for her for too long. She would not want that for you. Just don't ever forget her and live a good life for yourself and her and if you believe in God you will know that one day you will see her again.
im sorry that happened (lord loves you and his judgement is best) it was her time to go and it can happen to any of us so just keep her in your heart and her death will not be in vain
Answer:
Seeking reasons for such unfortunate events is a normal human trait. Even if you had a detailed answer, giving the exact reasons, which rarely helps much, you would still have to cope with the loss, and go through the necessary stages of grieving. Phone Hospice or the Samaritans (phone book) www.samaritans.org Email jo@samaritans.org Go to http://www.mind.org.uk/ and type "grief" in the taskbar and press your "enter" key. See http://talkingminds.15.forumer.com/... Later, make a photo album/scrapbook and/or a shrine in remembrance, and select one day/month for remembering her, maybe planting a tree, as well.
Things happen, and we must move on and accept the fact that we will all pass on eventually. Anything could happen, the apocalypse is predicted for 2012 as it is... I'm sorry to hear of your misfortune, but you must move on. Remember, she's watching you. Get revenge on death by making your sister proud.
um. hmm.
I'm sorry, sweetie. It sounds like something really awful has happened.
I'm really really sorry.
I'm sorry for your loss. Most hospitals and even churches offer some kind of grief management support groups. They're usually free, also. Why not check into one of these groups? It will help you get through this.
I am sorry for your loss. I don't know if Diana took her life or had her life taken by illness or accident, but know that she is at peace and you will see her someday. I know right now that may not be entirely comforting, but in time, it will be once the shock wears off.
Please try to remember the wonderful times with your sister instead the last moments that were the worst. I will pray for you and your family. Take care.
I'm so sorry hon, it really sucks to lose someone we love, and blood we love is all that much harder to lose. With time it won't hurt as much, but the loss of a sister will never go away. But then you don't ever want to forget her, only move past the hurt. Try to occupy your mind as much as possible for a while, hang with friends, do healthy things you normally don't do. Time will help you move up the healing curve. If you can't seem to handle it on your own, you may need to reach out for some help. Don't wait if you have black thoughts, people love you, too! There often is absolutely no logical reason why, try not to ask the question, but I know your mind and heart are screaming for an answer. We are only on this earth for a moment, our goal should be to make the most out of what time we have left. Your sister wouldn't want to be a downer for you. You know that in your heart. Join a support group in your area, there is a great possibility of it helping. They will help you deal with the grief and the questions that can't be answered now. Don't blame yourself, you are not to blame. The support group will help you understand that as well. Don't go it alone. Take care of yourself.
This is to my way of thinking. We are all allotted a time period to achieve certain things in this life, what the certain things are, I don't know, but when we have achieved whatever they are, we are taken. Somehow , there a lessons in all of this for us. I think even the families we are born into are all preplanned for a reason. So be happy that you had your little sister for the time span that you did. Celebrate her life. Don't grieve for her for too long. She would not want that for you. Just don't ever forget her and live a good life for yourself and her and if you believe in God you will know that one day you will see her again.
im sorry that happened (lord loves you and his judgement is best) it was her time to go and it can happen to any of us so just keep her in your heart and her death will not be in vain
Why when I try to go to sleep do I seem sometimes to fight my sleepy?
I try to go to sleep and it seems like I'm fighting my sleepy. Why does that happen?
Answer:
I often have trouble falling asleep. Usually it's just that my brain won't shut off, and I'll just lie there thinking about one thing or another, sometimes just stupid trivial things. I find doing some kind of puzzle that doesn't require a lot of thought (like word finds or fill-it-in puzzles) help to clear my mind. Not crosswords though cuz they can make you think. Also, I sometimes read a non-thought provoking book, like a romance novel, but if that's not your cup of tea, you could try watching TV for a bit. I also find that makes me more sleepy if I'm already tired.
Another reason I have problems falling asleep sometimes is that "restless leg syndrome". I learned a trick for that (and this also works for me sometimes even if that's not the problem). While lying in the position you best fall asleep, straigthen your legs, one at a time, and pull your toes up as far as you can (while keeping your leg straight) and stretch your calf. Then point your toes down and clench your calf muscles. Then relax. It really works! I always feel more relaxed after doing that.
You probably just have too much on your mind. It helps to try to go to sleep with a completely blank mind
.
Um, what's a sleepy?
uhh...take drugs
Answer:
I often have trouble falling asleep. Usually it's just that my brain won't shut off, and I'll just lie there thinking about one thing or another, sometimes just stupid trivial things. I find doing some kind of puzzle that doesn't require a lot of thought (like word finds or fill-it-in puzzles) help to clear my mind. Not crosswords though cuz they can make you think. Also, I sometimes read a non-thought provoking book, like a romance novel, but if that's not your cup of tea, you could try watching TV for a bit. I also find that makes me more sleepy if I'm already tired.
Another reason I have problems falling asleep sometimes is that "restless leg syndrome". I learned a trick for that (and this also works for me sometimes even if that's not the problem). While lying in the position you best fall asleep, straigthen your legs, one at a time, and pull your toes up as far as you can (while keeping your leg straight) and stretch your calf. Then point your toes down and clench your calf muscles. Then relax. It really works! I always feel more relaxed after doing that.
You probably just have too much on your mind. It helps to try to go to sleep with a completely blank mind
.
Um, what's a sleepy?
uhh...take drugs
Why was my question about drug abuse removed? what was wrong with it?
This was the qeustion in question "I am debating with myself how I can best solve my problems and get my needs met, some people say take drugs?" What do you think about this?
Answer:
Do not take drugs your problems will just get worse plus you will have a whole other set of problems to deal with.
Your question was probably removed because it violated the terms of service. Reread the Community Guidelines, particularly the allowable content section.
I think you could have just worded it better. More detail, of what type of problems, and what type of drugs you are talking about, and exactly what drug. If you are talking about going to get medication from a doctor for depression, panic disorder, bi polar disorder etc... that makes a huge difference in the results you will get. If you are just asking should I become a crack head to escape life, well then that is another story also. They different policies on talking about certain things on here. You need to be a lot more specific.
And depending on your individual situation, and what your problems are... You very well could benefit from meds. The only way to really determine that is to talk to a doctor. There is no shame in asking for help. That is what they are there for. Becoming a drug addict is not a good idea in any way for any reason. It will only complicate things more, and then it turns into this vicious cycle. It's best to try to find a way to resolve, or at least find ways to help with the problems you are having what ever it may be.
There I hope I answered both questions well enough for you.
Because you had questionable content. Read the community guidlines...
DO NOT take drugs. My sister is a recovering drug addict and to speak for expeierence drugs will just create another problem for you. All drugs do is mess you up even more. My sister has gotten in legal trouble with drugs and it all started over a problem that could of been solved and instead she created a bigger one that she will have for the rest of her life.. There are other ways to handle problems.
if you have to ask if drugs can in anyway help your situation. then i suggest your DR is the man to ask and if you can not do that then the answer is clear
Answer:
Do not take drugs your problems will just get worse plus you will have a whole other set of problems to deal with.
Your question was probably removed because it violated the terms of service. Reread the Community Guidelines, particularly the allowable content section.
I think you could have just worded it better. More detail, of what type of problems, and what type of drugs you are talking about, and exactly what drug. If you are talking about going to get medication from a doctor for depression, panic disorder, bi polar disorder etc... that makes a huge difference in the results you will get. If you are just asking should I become a crack head to escape life, well then that is another story also. They different policies on talking about certain things on here. You need to be a lot more specific.
And depending on your individual situation, and what your problems are... You very well could benefit from meds. The only way to really determine that is to talk to a doctor. There is no shame in asking for help. That is what they are there for. Becoming a drug addict is not a good idea in any way for any reason. It will only complicate things more, and then it turns into this vicious cycle. It's best to try to find a way to resolve, or at least find ways to help with the problems you are having what ever it may be.
There I hope I answered both questions well enough for you.
Because you had questionable content. Read the community guidlines...
DO NOT take drugs. My sister is a recovering drug addict and to speak for expeierence drugs will just create another problem for you. All drugs do is mess you up even more. My sister has gotten in legal trouble with drugs and it all started over a problem that could of been solved and instead she created a bigger one that she will have for the rest of her life.. There are other ways to handle problems.
if you have to ask if drugs can in anyway help your situation. then i suggest your DR is the man to ask and if you can not do that then the answer is clear
Why was my poem removed...? It was supposed to hepl and was a personal experience. Here is another?
Mental illness refers to to mind
and its violent encounters of the internal kind
however you view it, its plain to see
recovery starts with the concept of me
whenever i'm ready, I'll start to begin
to challenge the demons that lie deep within
when im impotant enough i'll consider myself
without this discovery i'll be left on a shelf
either that or i'll simply like what I see
the Mental health system becomes like family to me
so much so, that one can begin to depend
on a system whos support is unable to end
Institutionalized, is what i've heard them call it
a lack of structure is the reason for it
certainly not for me, I hear myself say
I'll dictate my path in an empowering way.
I've held faith and belief that others can see
that it is not just behaviour that makes up me
I have the ambition, will and drive
to make this a journey I will survive
one that is solo secure and will find
other encounters of the internal kind
The other one is still in poetry.
Answer:
It was removed because some oaf prob complained it was copied. It is a good poem.
ps. there is nothing narcissic about wanting to heal depression.
That's really good!!
Probably removed because it was as narcissistic and and self indulgent as this one....
This is not a question or a poem. It's a drone on bore of self obsessed melodramatics. It has been reported.
I am not sure why your poem would be removed, all I know is that it should not have been. This is an excellent poem, keep up the good work!
If I am in a room within a room
As I try every door that's locked
And in the blackness I must wait
Be it in my mind I should stay
OMG that is a brilliant poem! wish i could write poems like that!
Because it's not a question..
Maybe because it is not a question.
This is ByeDr.com. People ask questions, then others answer. Its not for submitting poetry.
But I do think your poem is good. Its just not for here.
and its violent encounters of the internal kind
however you view it, its plain to see
recovery starts with the concept of me
whenever i'm ready, I'll start to begin
to challenge the demons that lie deep within
when im impotant enough i'll consider myself
without this discovery i'll be left on a shelf
either that or i'll simply like what I see
the Mental health system becomes like family to me
so much so, that one can begin to depend
on a system whos support is unable to end
Institutionalized, is what i've heard them call it
a lack of structure is the reason for it
certainly not for me, I hear myself say
I'll dictate my path in an empowering way.
I've held faith and belief that others can see
that it is not just behaviour that makes up me
I have the ambition, will and drive
to make this a journey I will survive
one that is solo secure and will find
other encounters of the internal kind
The other one is still in poetry.
Answer:
It was removed because some oaf prob complained it was copied. It is a good poem.
ps. there is nothing narcissic about wanting to heal depression.
That's really good!!
Probably removed because it was as narcissistic and and self indulgent as this one....
This is not a question or a poem. It's a drone on bore of self obsessed melodramatics. It has been reported.
I am not sure why your poem would be removed, all I know is that it should not have been. This is an excellent poem, keep up the good work!
If I am in a room within a room
As I try every door that's locked
And in the blackness I must wait
Be it in my mind I should stay
OMG that is a brilliant poem! wish i could write poems like that!
Because it's not a question..
Maybe because it is not a question.
This is ByeDr.com. People ask questions, then others answer. Its not for submitting poetry.
But I do think your poem is good. Its just not for here.
Why uncontroolable movement of head?
i was under treatment for social fobia..I have taken paxidep cr 12.5 and dine 2.5 and norton ,medicines for 2 yeras to control my uncontrollable shivering in a public situation...
now i m not using paxidep for last 2 months
but now I am feeling difficult to turn my head to my left while speaking.when i m tries to look to
my left head starts to shiver...(only in public situations...) It tends to move to right side...the ear is also moving..
why it happends? is there any exersice to control it ? My EEG and ECG is ok..
hoping an answer
Answer:
you need to see a doctor, that could be a pinched nerve, or a problem with your brain.
This does not sound good, or healthy at all. You need to call and talk to your Doctor, about what you are going through. Your Doctor, would be the best person, to answer your question.
I wish you good Health. Have a Good Day.
You should speak with your psychiatrist about this one. It could be something serious. I was taking Abilify and started experience Tardive Diskenisia (uncontrollable facial twitches.) It's most likely your medication that's affecting you this way, so talk to your doctor... you could either switch medications or lower the dosage, whatever works best for you. Good luck!
Sounds like a nervous twitch. My husbands head kinda twitchs when he is nervous (and when he is lying). And my fathers did the same thing when ever he would tell a joke.
sounds like parkinsons disease, have someone check you out.
now i m not using paxidep for last 2 months
but now I am feeling difficult to turn my head to my left while speaking.when i m tries to look to
my left head starts to shiver...(only in public situations...) It tends to move to right side...the ear is also moving..
why it happends? is there any exersice to control it ? My EEG and ECG is ok..
hoping an answer
Answer:
you need to see a doctor, that could be a pinched nerve, or a problem with your brain.
This does not sound good, or healthy at all. You need to call and talk to your Doctor, about what you are going through. Your Doctor, would be the best person, to answer your question.
I wish you good Health. Have a Good Day.
You should speak with your psychiatrist about this one. It could be something serious. I was taking Abilify and started experience Tardive Diskenisia (uncontrollable facial twitches.) It's most likely your medication that's affecting you this way, so talk to your doctor... you could either switch medications or lower the dosage, whatever works best for you. Good luck!
Sounds like a nervous twitch. My husbands head kinda twitchs when he is nervous (and when he is lying). And my fathers did the same thing when ever he would tell a joke.
sounds like parkinsons disease, have someone check you out.
Why type of yoga, since there are different types is most beneficial for helping lessen symptoms of anxiety?
Answer:
They all lesson anxiety. Mindfulness, breath awareness, body awareness all help anxiety. Exercises that strengthen core muscles and improve balance can help with sensory integration and improve anxiety caused by a lack of physical awareness. It is not the type of yoga, but what specific types of exercises help most.
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