Why is it so tough to wet my diaper that my girlfriend puts on me?

Answer:
To heck with those that want to put you down for doing something they are afraid to try. I look at it this way, if you haven't tried it then don't knock it.

Now to answer your question, you were potty trained when you were younger and it is so ingrained in you to not wet yourself that when you have a diaper on and it is perfectly normal and okay for you to wet yourself, you can't.

It will take time to overcome an un-natural act, the act of holding in our urine when we need to relieve ourselves. Now that you have a diaper on it will take practice and time. Just force yourself to wet yourself. Put the diaper on and make a promise to yourself not to take it off until you are wet. Sooner or later you won't be able to hold your urine in and it will come out into the diaper.

One of the other problems is the thought in our minds that the diaper won't hold all we can give it. This may be true if you wait until the last minute to where you can't hold it any more but if you relax and let yourself go before that time then the diaper will more than hold it so don't worry. If you still have a concern, then don't be sitting on any furniture or anything, just stand up and do it. You might even try standing in front of the commode as if you were using it to urinate. It might help.

You will be surprised at the feeling when you finally do wet yourself, it will be hot on your skin, mainly because your urine is at core body temperature but your skin surface is usually cooler than that so you feel the heat from your urine.

Once you have managed to wet yourself a few times it will become easier and easier each time you do it until finally you will be able to do it without even thinking. Just relax and enjoy yourself.

Good luck.

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Huh? Maybe cause you're too old to be wearing a nappy, and the logical instinct to use a TOILET keeps kicking in!

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oh a fetish how nice maybe as you are to old

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If it makes you excited to be wearing the diaper that could be it. Men cannot urinate while erect, wait a while and cuddle, see if you calm down.
As far as other people judging you, nonsense, what two people are willing to do togetheer is their business

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